“Sacrifice, but don’t waste your life”- this is what I believe in! People come in your life for a reason, either good or bad, so that’s the reason why they influence intensely on your mental health. It’s really not about helping but about being in someone’s life or choosing the right people to stay in yours!
I believe, each day of this life is priceless and its not worth easily get ruined for someone or something that’s not worth it! I’ve seen people crying for those who don’t even look back at the mess they created in someone’s life & on that they easily get away with it. The thing to do in such circumstances is let the mind decide in order to choose the right people who you blindly trust would stay in life throughout the best and worst situations.
Like many others, I’ve also been learning from different experiences of life & now feel no longer previleged burning my emotions and inner peace for those who intend to use me as a candle only to handle with their temporary darkness of life. Because inner peace keeps you alive longer so nobody should be given the authorization to destroy it or even damage it a bit! Its totally insane to handover your entire self to anyone who doesn’t know how exactly to keep you.
People who take you for granted know that you are always there no matter what way they treat you like. They selfishly recall about you only when “they” are in emotional or physical need and if “you” need them, they know very well how to play with you moods through their debates and pretending skills. Its a fact, they really won’t bother learning how bad later on you feel deep inside or how many hours you kill yourself emotionally in the chaos of good and bad thoughts blaming only your “own” self.
LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM!
LEARN TO IGNORE THEM!
MAKE THEM LEARN YOUR VALUE FIRST!
TEACH THEM TO MAKE EQUAL EFFORTS TO BE ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU AS WELL!
Trust me, life is TOO short to keep running behind those who were never meant to be there for you!